Bait and switch dating
This is how psychopaths attract new victims and make them feel wanted, loved and safe.
I’ve seen women post their daughter’s or younger sister’s photos.
The first two words raise the expectation of another crime, equally severe, but then switch it out with jaywalking.
The origin of the name comes from a now-illegal advertising practice in which a store would a customer into their store with an advertisement featuring a product selling for a reduced price, but when the customer got there he would find out that they were "all out" of the advertised product...
but the store would be happy to sell a similar product for just a few dollars more, thus performing the .
A form of Subverted Trope, or a Double Subverted Trope.